Today’s post has nothing to do with what I usually ramble on about here. It’s something that I’ve been contemplating for a really long while. Friendships fostered over brownies and freshly baked chocolate chip cookies at 2am in the morning. Friendships built through backpacking all over Asia, or traipsing all over Singapore suddenly is not there anymore. Friendships fostered over a decade, suddenly poof, gone in the blink of an eye.
I wonder if these were even real friendships to begin with? It’s not that I don’t try to maintain contact. I do but its obvious I’m being pushed away. “I’ll call you later” or “i’ll message you later” but later never comes. I understand y’all have significant others now and spending time with someone like me is probably a complete waste of precious time.
I guess one day, years down the road when we meet each other again would y’all say “hi” then just walk away?